Comments on: Beautiful Nightmare http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/11/30/beautiful-nightmare/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=beautiful-nightmare ...it's about the quality of life! Mon, 21 May 2012 19:06:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Mary B. http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/11/30/beautiful-nightmare/comment-page-1/#comment-1878 Mary B. Mon, 07 Dec 2009 12:46:34 +0000 http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/?p=4317#comment-1878 Now normally i read Chanel's columns and only give her feedback on the column itself and how she handed the advice she gave, ((doll, it was a great column. you made it personal with background stories of your own and really connected with the reader on this one. this is on of my FAVS!)) I'm also never one to question one's opinion on anything however, Constanza, you are wrong and it may not be my place to say this to you either but your advice was not only out of place but arrogant and unsympathetic to a situation you obviously cannot relate to. not only was your take on the column belittling but the comment was self-righteous and ignorant. my advice to you is that you don't give advice to anyone one on a situation that you have never experienced or cannot relate to. sorry for the outburst, but as someone who is married to a Marine who deploys every 7 months for 7 to 9 months...i can honestly relate to this girl and her situation. Constanza, you have only proved why i do not like to have female friends. yes, it does cause many trust issues with my husband while he is deployed but we deal with it. the difference between guy friends and chick friends is that a guy knows what you need when you need it and is willing to do almost anything to make sure you are okay. if they really care for you, whether its as only a friend or something more, a true guy friend will never let you hurt your self and will stop you from making a mistake no matter how attracted to you he is or not. yes, that sounds a bit cinematic but Men have hero complexes, and a lot of women have God complexes. and no matter how much your girl friends care for you they are still "think-for-themselfers" and i will even admit when it comes to my heart or another girls heart...i'll break hers first but for my guy friends i'll give my life. and that is why i will always find more comfort in guy friends and not woman friends.((if my guy friends ever hurt me i'd see it coming, oppose to if any of my girlfriends hurt me...i wouldnt know it till the knife in my back killed me)) beautiful nightmare, this is my advice to you. i think its only human to sometimes think that way, but as long as its only in your head...like Chanel said, its not unlike a celebrity crush. its you actions, not your thoughts, that make you unfaithful. *Chanel, i wasn't trying to steal the spotlight from you ^_^ this one just really hit home. Now normally i read Chanel’s columns and only give her feedback on the column itself and how she handed the advice she gave, ((doll, it was a great column. you made it personal with background stories of your own and really connected with the reader on this one. this is on of my FAVS!)) I’m also never one to question one’s opinion on anything however, Constanza, you are wrong and it may not be my place to say this to you either but your advice was not only out of place but arrogant and unsympathetic to a situation you obviously cannot relate to. not only was your take on the column belittling but the comment was self-righteous and ignorant. my advice to you is that you don’t give advice to anyone one on a situation that you have never experienced or cannot relate to.

sorry for the outburst, but as someone who is married to a Marine who deploys every 7 months for 7 to 9 months…i can honestly relate to this girl and her situation. Constanza, you have only proved why i do not like to have female friends. yes, it does cause many trust issues with my husband while he is deployed but we deal with it. the difference between guy friends and chick friends is that a guy knows what you need when you need it and is willing to do almost anything to make sure you are okay. if they really care for you, whether its as only a friend or something more, a true guy friend will never let you hurt your self and will stop you from making a mistake no matter how attracted to you he is or not. yes, that sounds a bit cinematic but Men have hero complexes, and a lot of women have God complexes. and no matter how much your girl friends care for you they are still “think-for-themselfers” and i will even admit when it comes to my heart or another girls heart…i’ll break hers first but for my guy friends i’ll give my life. and that is why i will always find more comfort in guy friends and not woman friends.((if my guy friends ever hurt me i’d see it coming, oppose to if any of my girlfriends hurt me…i wouldnt know it till the knife in my back killed me))

beautiful nightmare, this is my advice to you. i think its only human to sometimes think that way, but as long as its only in your head…like Chanel said, its not unlike a celebrity crush. its you actions, not your thoughts, that make you unfaithful.

*Chanel, i wasn’t trying to steal the spotlight from you ^_^ this one just really hit home.

]]> By: Brandi http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/11/30/beautiful-nightmare/comment-page-1/#comment-1843 Brandi Mon, 30 Nov 2009 21:33:25 +0000 http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/?p=4317#comment-1843 I agree with chanel its only natural you think that way.. But i would try not to get into too deep with the friend and maybe back off of him a little so you don't do something you regret. Its all your decision, that's just what I think would be best for you and your relationship with your boyfriend. I agree with chanel its only natural you think that way.. But i would try not to get into too deep with the friend and maybe back off of him a little so you don’t do something you regret.
Its all your decision, that’s just what I think would be best for you and your relationship with your boyfriend.

]]> By: Constanza http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/11/30/beautiful-nightmare/comment-page-1/#comment-1842 Constanza Mon, 30 Nov 2009 20:41:45 +0000 http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/?p=4317#comment-1842 I think neither one of the relationships are healthy. You seem to be around male friends but the truth is that when you are in a serious relationship you do not need to seek other male friends. On the other hand, it seems like your relationship with your currently boyfriend makes you lonely and that is the reason why you feel attracted to this other guy. My adviced will be to leave both behinds and find someone that is always there are for you. I think neither one of the relationships are healthy. You seem to be around male friends but the truth is that when you are in a serious relationship you do not need to seek other male friends. On the other hand, it seems like your relationship with your currently boyfriend makes you lonely and that is the reason why you feel attracted to this other guy. My adviced will be to leave both behinds and find someone that is always there are for you.

]]> By: Kirstin http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/11/30/beautiful-nightmare/comment-page-1/#comment-1840 Kirstin Mon, 30 Nov 2009 17:13:05 +0000 http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/?p=4317#comment-1840 It is human to think.. to act is a different story. Great advice yet again, Chanel! Love your columns! It is human to think.. to act is a different story. Great advice yet again, Chanel! Love your columns!

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